Calm words for real parenting moments

Get the right words to say to your child

Mary Talkins gives parents calm, gentle words for mornings, bedtimes, big feelings, and the moments when you don’t know what to say.

No ads. No noise. Just gentle support.

Approved by Apple. Public availability is pending; the App Store page may not be available in your region yet.

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For the moments when parenting feels hard

Mary Talkins is there for the small everyday moments that shape the relationship.

1

Rushed mornings

Find one steady phrase before the pressure takes over.

2

Difficult bedtimes

Bring softness, closeness, and repair into the end of the day.

3

Big feelings

Get help choosing words that support regulation and connection.

4

Not knowing what to say

Pause, describe the moment, and receive practical guidance.

5

Repair after conflict

Return to your child with warmth after a hard moment.

6

Wanting to feel closer

Build small rituals that help your child feel seen and loved.

Guided by Mariann

Mary Talkins is shaped around Mariann’s calm, child-centered approach to parenting — helping parents respond with more warmth, clarity, and connection.

It is not about becoming a perfect parent. It is about having support in the moments when you want to choose gentleness, even when parenting feels difficult.

Parenting feels different when you are not alone in the hard moments.

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Mariann Joonas-Tõnumaa
Mariann Joonas-Tõnumaa

About Mariann

Mariann Joonas-Tõnumaa is a wife, mother of three, editor, freelance journalist, and author of the family book Book of the Blunderer: The Bright Side of Making Mistakes (with Science!).

Her child-centered approach is rooted in respect, trust, and compassionate communication. Mary Talkins brings that approach into everyday family life, helping parents find calmer words, reconnect after conflict, and make room for mistakes.

The app is not about perfect parenting. It is about having a gentle place to return to when family life feels loud, emotional, or hard to navigate.

Daily calm parenting support

Start with 7 days free. Continue with Mary Talkins Premium for daily calm parenting support.

Keep daily support

Continue the morning and evening rhythm after your free week.

Get help in hard moments

Describe what happened and receive gentle, practical guidance.

Keep words that help

Save your favourite guidance and return to it when you need a calmer moment.

Founding Family Lifetime

For early Mary Talkins families. Keep Mary with you as the app grows.

€99

one-time launch offer

  • Keep daily Mary Talkins support
  • Morning and evening guidance
  • Describe support for difficult moments
  • Save and revisit your favourites
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Start with 7 days free

Start with 7 days free. To continue using Mary Talkins after your free week, choose Monthly or Lifetime Premium in the app.

Monthly PremiumSee in app

See the final price and purchase terms in the app before buying. Local prices may vary by region.

Questions

Is Mary Talkins therapy?

No. Mary Talkins is gentle parenting support, not medical or therapeutic care.

What age is Mary Talkins for?

Mary Talkins is made for everyday parenting — especially the years when children need help with big feelings, routines, bedtime, and connection.

Is there a free version?

You can try Mary Talkins free for 7 days. After that, Premium is required to continue using the app. Choose Monthly or Lifetime in the app.

Does it replace my judgment as a parent?

No. Mary Talkins helps you pause, reflect, and choose calmer words. You always know your child and your situation best.